Couples’ decisions on having a first child : Comparing pathways to early and late parenthood

Arieke Rijken; Trudie Knijn

doi:10.4054/DemRes.2009.21.26

Volume 21 - Article 26 | Pages 765–802

Couples’ decisions on having a first child : Comparing pathways to early and late parenthood

By Arieke Rijken, Trudie Knijn

Date received:

4 Feb 2009

Date published:

25 Nov 2009

Word count:

12921

Keywords:

couple decision-making, early parenthood, first birth, Netherlands, postponement of family formation, qualitative study

DOI:

10.4054/DemRes.2009.21.26

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Abstract

We investigate the decision-making process of having a first child, using theories on individualisation, lifestyle choices and negotiating partnerships as a starting point. We compare couples who had their first child at a relatively young age with those who had their first child at an older than average age, using data from semi-structured interviews with 33 couples, selected from the Netherlands Kinship Panel Study (NKPS). Although expecting more explicit decision-making among older parents, our qualitative analyses show that decision-making preceding both early and postponed first childbirth is often implicit. Disagreement between partners does not necessarily lead to discussion. Factors that result in the postponement of childbearing, such as higher education, do not always play a conscious role in people’s decision-making processes.